A good friend of mine had IVF. It took her and her husband 5 or 6 goes to get pregnant and carry the baby to term. After her son was born she got pregnant again naturally but miscarried (more than once I think). She is a very strong lady, and it is wonderful to see her with her son. He is an officially gifted child and she home schools him. She says she worked so hard to become a Mum, that she is determined to enjoy every moment of it while she can. I admire her so much.