I admire that you've been able to manage for so long with methods other than meds and with so much on your plate right now. It can be a challenge to find the right one. Maybe Welbutrin would be a better choice- less side effects I believe. It works on dopamine and norepinephrine, not serotonin.
Just know that you will find some relief and clearly give yourself credit for all that you have going on and how you've managed thus far. Remind yourself how strong youve been and you'll get there again. You're taking the right steps.