I am a Christian and just because you are taught to forgive does not mean you have to be a victim. At no time should anyone be a victim. If forgiveness make you feel like a victim then you are doing it wrong. Forgiveness is something you do so that you can move on. Forgiveness is basically saying I am not going to look back I am moving forward and I am going to position my vision forward and see all the great things I still have and will have in the furture. Without forgiveness you cannot move on. It is basically a physical and mental release that will allow you to move on without it coming back to remind you of the pain.

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