I'm sure he will, but I've learned not to initiate contact unless I have something I actually need to communicate. Checking up on him isn't a good idea. And he knows I'm checking up even if I don't come right and say, "How are you doing?"

He really hates that. Some of our worst arguments have come out of me calling to see how he's doing. It's better to wait with anxiety rising than to call and have an explosion.