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Originally Posted by Webgoji
It cures any amount of self-esteem I might have salvaged during the day ...  |
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Originally Posted by gayleggg
In a loving relationship it brings a closenss that is hard to forget, even after the relationship has ended. It can even create a bond that can't be broken. (A true romanitic) It does release chemicals that make us feel good. It can also, degrade our self-esteem if given to carelessly.
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You know, I was thinking about this and why it bothers me so much these days and I think I get it! Sorry to hijack the thread, but here's what I think has been bothering me when it comes to sex with Mrs. Webgoji:
1. As we've grown, her tastes sexually have changed as well. She wants me to be more rough with her. But given her physical state, I'm always concerned about hurting her (she's had shoulder surgery that still bothers her as well as a herniated disk and problems in her hips). Ergo, I go easy and then feel bad for not doing just what she wanted.
2. I'm often anorgasmic due to antidepressants and, frankly, there are other physical issues both with her and I that can lead to me not being able to have an orgasm. She then feels bad which, in turn, puts pressure on me to have an orgasm and makes the situation that much worse.
3. I'm a troll and have bad self-esteem issues anyway. I feel like she doesn't really even want to look at me anymore.
Now that I know what's been bothering me, I can work on it.
