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Originally Posted by reagan
On one hand, I feel guilty for letting it get this far before being more aggressive about fixing things, like I should have recognized that we need to be getting help earlier.
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Aggression was never called for and her behavior is not your fault that you should feel guilty. You do not sound like you need help, you are trying to solve your communication problems the best you can. You have counselling now but that may fail too. You have to decide what is best for you if she will not choose to accept responsibility for her own words and actions.