I'm curious if you argue with your T during sessions or do you just kindly exchange opinions? Today I made my T crazy I wasn't impolite or aggressive (I guess the worst think which I've told him was that I do not feel his empathy) but we were just arguing the whole time, he was raising his voice a lot and he said e.g., "could you please, before you say something, think?" I loved that, especially as he always asks me to say things spontaneously and to not think about them....

Is it common to feel great about arguing with a T? I guess the worst thing is that eventually I felt very safe at the session but I felt the safest when he was almost yelling at me, it was like "oh, he is angry, so he actually feels something - does it mean that he cares?! " I know, probably it's not the healthiest feeling ...