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Old Jan 07, 2014, 05:14 PM
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Originally Posted by brillskep View Post
That is wonderful. When I started reading about your arrangement with your T, I immediately thought boundary violations and that this was not right. But as I read on ... I really, really relate to this. I also loved your conclusions, especially numbers 3 to 5. You've given me some food for thought and 5 is very reassuring to me as a beginning T. Thank you for that. I have also learned a lot from profession-related dual relationships with my T (mine just don't involve any hiring).
Thanks for this! I guess it's not "hiring" per se; I agreed to do her website and she is going to pay me when I'm done. As Rainbow said, I have always had an unusual relationship with this T, but it has worked. Either she's a bad T and got lucky with me or she is a brilliant one that realized what I needed and was willing to deliver. I hope that she will mentor me as I'm in school, but I'm taking it a day at a time right now.
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Thanks for this!
brillskep, rainbow8