Thank you! I may be going to make him happy. I've been doing that kind of thing my whole life. But then maybe it's the only way I would have had a life. I think I am more likely to regret it then not, but that is true of every date I ever had. (If anyone can tell me what that means, please do!)

I always say I don't want a relationship and that seems to bring out the psycho aspect in men. About a year and a half ago I was doing some volunteer work with a guy who ended up stalking me after I said I didn't want to date. It's still not over but it's less intense now. Part of me thinks if I had given him a chance it might not have gotten ugly.