I may be wrong about the not allowing phone contact. I think maybe she used to call him too much, and I don't think he lets her anymore. I don't think he forbids phone contact completely. I'm sorry. My point was about the party more than if he allows phone contact or not. I just wanted validation that the party sounded like it was unprofessional, or see what people thought. It's not MY T, so I don't know all the details, but I know the party happened.