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Originally Posted by rainbow8
No, I haven't been. Still, if my T and I were at something like that we would probably have rules about our interacting. She would hopefully maintain her boundaries. Do you already know that your new T has the same interests/religion/hobbies as you do? Maybe you're worrying about something that may never even happen. It reminds me of my thread about my friend's T's party. It's not a good idea to even be at something intimate with your T, in my opinion.
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Honestly unless you have actually been to one you really can't see how it is like, especially if it is something that you are there to embrace an alternative lifestyle that you may both have.
I know I am way over-thinking things but that is what I do. In fact to drop another bombshell if you are both going to the same intimate gathering and you don't have anyone else you are going with (or are planning on meeting people at the gathering) I even think that it is appropriate to go to the gathering together as long as you don't overstep any boundaries (at least what I think are boundaries), such as spending the night at a hotel along the way or even visiting public places that might be along the way. I think I am getting everything out now but I think that here is the appropriate place to do it.