I didn't mean that at all! I'm sorry if that's what you got from my post. Your opinion is very important but it's something you need to discuss with your T. I can't imagine that an ethical, professional T would encourage your doing these things together, even in a group. I understand that YOU think this scenario would not be crossing boundaries, but your T would probably think otherwise. Like, in a sense, I still think it was okay for me to drive by my T's house, but she doesn't think so. It doesn't matter what my opinion is; it's HER feelings that are important when it comes to HER boundaries. I don't think an ethical T would put herself into an intimate situation like you're talking about.

There was a group tour I went on, and it was possible that my former T could have gone too. It would have been intimate. She said she was not going, and I think she also said that she wouldn't go if I were going. It would have caused too many boundary issues.

I hope you talk about this issue with your new T right away so you don't get hurt.