Back in June, I made my first post on this forum about being insecure in regards to my girlfriend's past. Her past wasn't much (she was a virgin before me and had only had minor hookups like foreplay), but they still bothered me. After spending some time on this forum I managed to fix my problem and got over my thoughts regarding her past. But now it appears as though the shoe is on the other foot.
I'm not a virgin. However, aside from my current girlfriend, I've only had sex with one other person. That's a small number compared to most people my age. My girl is now suddenly insecure about MY own past and I have no clue how to handle it. I've tried explaining to her everything that worked for me when I had similar thoughts but nothing seems to work. What do I do? She wants to erase the thoughts from her mind and she can't seem to get rid of them. Speaking from experience, I know what she means, but it was HELL for me to get over her very minor past experiences as opposed to mine.