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Old Jan 07, 2014, 11:02 PM
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Originally Posted by feralkittymom View Post
While you are of course entitled to your opinion, it's also necessary to realize that your opinion will not be shared by most Ts, nor in most instances. It appeared that your insistence on this viewpoint caused difficulties in your last T relationship. This is clearly an issue you need to explore, but it would be more helpful if you approached it from the perspective of figuring out why it's so important to you, rather than from a position of changing your T's mind.
I am not trying to change my Therapists point of view, I just want them to accept mine, and I remember that you were the one that told me that discussing appropriate boundaries outside of Therapy isn't so much about if you will actually meet outside of Therapy in real life but rather how you view the Therapist-Client relationship.
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Thanks for this!
Syra