I stopped before i finished my thought! So all your what-ifs sound like me when i started with my current t. I ran into him maybe a total of 5 times just outside the office building over the past 6 years, and each time has been a 100% improvement over the previous time, to where now i am practically normal with him, and he almost looks awkward! But really all the work is done in the office - these are more like pop quizzes.