Girls have sex drives too So you like the evening time for you "fun"? I really suggest asking her if she's willing for you to initiate. She can say no without thinking bad of you. Check on you what is allowed in your relationship as far as porn, experimentation, and self gratification.

My husband is very sex is almost a negative thing. I'm a sex is awesome so conversations about it is like what you shop for at the store. He has a problem with impotence and delayed ejaculation. A ring helped him with some of it but he will be getting an ED medication to fix the other side effects. My husband was to embarrassed to say anything. so I blurted it out for him when he was with his DR. It's a common for bipolar meds to need other meds to counteract the side effects. Please talk to your GP, you deserve to finish.