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Old Jan 08, 2014, 02:13 AM
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Originally Posted by RTerroni View Post
I think that I try to respect my Therapists point of view as much as possible, for instance I didn't agree with my Therapists point of view on a solid line between Therapist and Client outside of Therapy but I respected it.
I'm not sure I would agree with this (bolded). I would see your information seeking as a boundary violation in that it seeks to blur the line between the therapy relationship and a personal relationship. It compels information that is not freely given by the other person. You often seem to talk about, and act on, finding "ways around" boundaries that you disagree with. I'm really not trying to be harsh, but I think part of your issue with boundaries does play itself out in ways you may not be fully aware of. That's what gives the "stalkerish" impression.