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Originally Posted by feralkittymom
I'm not sure I would agree with this (bolded). I would see your information seeking as a boundary violation in that it seeks to blur the line between the therapy relationship and a personal relationship. It compels information that is not freely given by the other person. You often seem to talk about, and act on, finding "ways around" boundaries that you disagree with. I'm really not trying to be harsh, but I think part of your issue with boundaries does play itself out in ways you may not be fully aware of. That's what gives the "stalkerish" impression.
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No what I am saying is that I respected her point of view but I thought that my point of view was the best to maximize a Therapist-Client relationship, I didn't agree with a solid line I agreed with a progressively fading line, but I still respected her point of view in it (it seemed like she was trying to get me to agree with her point of view which I was not going to).
Plus I have said this before but most ethical codes are way out of date and even complete BS (this is not the 1920s or even the 1950s when ethics in society in general were much much different).