Do you understand how you are disrespecting my choices and my experiences by saying that? You are not being respectful of other people's boundaries when you make comments like that. If that is the way that you respond when you talk to your Ts about boundaries, then that is probably where the issue arises and one of the things you might want to explore with your new T. If you don't understand what respecting someone else's boundaries looks like, that would be a great thing to learn.

You also seem to struggle with being able to look at a situation from someone else's perspective-- to step outside of yourself and try to understand how someone else might view a situation differently. You think leaving a gathering would necessarily ruin someone's experience. You aren't able to see how remaining at a gathering could ruin someone's experience, or how leaving would invite someone to have a different, more rewarding experience somewhere else. It is dependent upon the person in question.