I think I'd be paying more attention to that part of you that wants to get away. You said that you had been together for 15 years. But for how many of those years did you and he share an intimate connection? My car and I have been together for 8 years, but there's never been much in the way of intimacy... However my car IS convenient to have... and I've grown rather used to having it around. But, it's been acting up for quite a while though, so I fear that it's about time I traded it in for a car that makes me happy again.

I dunno... It seems to me that something is definitely off-kilter in your marriage. Um... is it possible that he's parking his shoes under someone elses bed? Just a thought...

Huh. Never touches you, avoids you and there's NO whoopie. NO whoopie? Whoa... Hmmmmmm... That doesn't sound like he values you very much, expecially since it's apparent that he isn't real big on communication either.

You certainly have a right to be upset.

Well, I don't have any advice for you per se, but I DO know that, personally, I would have an exceedingly difficult time remaining in a relationship if I felt invisible to the one I Loved.

Dan