I will say that I learned the hard way that if something actually can't (or shouldn't) wait until a certain date then ask for it not to.

I'm not sure therapy and strong feelings is the best time to be sucking it up - especially if we don't have to.

If you want to talk to your therapist, or find out if she had read the letter, the best way to find out is to ask - or make an appointment and go in.

Just because you said it could wait doesn't mean it HAS to you know?