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Old Jan 08, 2014, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted by nushi View Post
I don't have any kids (hopefully, yet!), but it seems a wrong act to me!

Shaming people, not just kids, & talking to them about their wrong-doings never works when you do it in front of other people (let alone over the internet, where anybody can see it!), actually it could have the very opposite result to stubbornly react to such a public shame #_#
Dear nushi,
I agree with you and I just wanted to note ....
Public shaming doesn't always play out in public or the internet, it also happens within the home. One child is deeded with the bad seed. The family unit is the audience.
The person pointing the finger outward is usually hiding from blame.

Is there anyway we can stop this on the internet?
Can public shaming be seen as a form of bullying?
Because we know the consequences of such behaviors.....
Then the media drips down the pipeline that this person was mentally disturbed.
Any helpful comments,
Happiedasiy

Parenting with discipline without the words bad/punishment.
There are guides to help parents learn new skills.
Actions have consequences and children need to learn about how their feelings guide their actions and are related, so they grow to understand how to diffuse from an early age.
Thanks nushi for bringing this to light.
H.
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