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Old Jan 08, 2014, 07:21 PM
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile View Post
Thanks Blur, I appreciate the support! Went through such a horrible day today waiting for her to come in, when she did I broke down again, the whole situation is making me so hopeless and feel trapped again
that sounds pretty awful. maybe you could just talk to the woman very calmly and tell her while you are not happy you have to work together that you do not want any contact with her unless it is absolutely necessary and regarding work only. then, focus on getting back to work and just ignore her as much as possible. i don't know, maybe doing something that will help you take back some control in this situation and not feel like a sitting duck. i did read your last thread and my first thought was that she is borderline. i'd ask your T what she recommends because i don't know if my suggestion is the best tack to take if she is borderline. worst comes to worst you can quit your job. i know it may be tough to find another right away but if you spiral into a place of major depression/sui thoughts it really isn't worth it. don't give up mona. you will get through this.
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