When the world around me is so variable, chaotic and unpredictable.

The thing is, if i just had a 9 to 5 job, predictable friends, predictable moments when i would go out, predictable sleep times and stuff it could be pretty easy.

But it's not. I mean, currently i'm not studying nor working, i'm going to travel though. And it also sounds pretty boring doing the same thing over and over again. Maybe i'm wrong and i would like that, but i doubt it. But because i have all day long, there is not really any good potential for structure in my life. Events just happen, friends hit me up if i wanna hang out at random times. I get impulsive ideas of what i want to do. There is no clear line. And i always have so much doubt about what i want to do. It's confusing when there are so much variable factors going on around me.

How do i create such an structure in my life where i do have the room for random events that happen to me and that are unplanned and not scheduled, yet i will be able to embrace it and not get carried away in confusion?