I don't know what dream world you are living in or what fantasy books you have read about people who struggle with anorexia or ED's but FYI.....most have gone through CSA or other trauma, some have dealt with the struggle dealing with abortions, rape & horrible things that have happened in their lives.

ED's initially are coping mechanisms to control an otherwise uncontrollable situation in their life & it's usually NOT about having such a wonderful life & being so perfect & body image to start with usually isn't even part of it though it turns into that over time.

The fairy tale books you are reading to make anorexia look appealing is JUST NOT ACCURATE. You need to get your facts correct & it's NOT the PRETTY PICTURE that you are trying to paint for why people end up struggling with anorexia.

You seriously need to clear up your distorted thinking regarding anorexia & ED's in general.