How do I tell my T I feel rejected by him? I sort of want to bring it up but that means I'm attached and trust him. I don't like that I am or that I want to reach out for help. It goes against all my defenses. This is why I don't trust or let people get close. I get hurt. If someone is close enough to influence my emotions it's time sabotage the relationship and run. I do sessions online and we were discussing self harm and I told him I was struggling with wanting to lately and that's how it was left. I haven't heard back since. I feel silly and childish that it's bothering me that he hasn't responded but it's been 4 days when we typically talk once a day or more. Sorry for venting I don't know what I'm looking for from this post. I'm just hurting and don't know what to do with it.