My ex and I broke up in July 2011. She is now with a new partner and I am single. We attend the same church. After she saw me at church she texted me that she did not want to have any type of relationship with me and she did not want me to contact her. I replied that I would respect her request. On several occasions she has come up to me and started conversations with me, asking me questions, saying things like I loved you deeply, I wish you God's highest best good etc. She even asked if she could hug me once. (this is after the no contact text from her)
I texted her to restate that she had asked me not to contact her and went on to ask her not to approach me, ask me questions, hug me etc. There was no acknowledgement from her about my text. Recently she attended the same function I was attending. While she was within earshot she was saying things out loud to try and get a reaction out of me. Nothing specific about me but general innuendos about how she was over me. A couple of times she approached a circle of people I was having a conversation with and talked to someone other than me (as if to test my boundary of "Don't approach me"). I know, from our history together, that these are direct challenges to the boundary I put in place with her. I did not react to her at all. I plan to continue this approach. I plan to focus on my spiritual path and my journey with God. I believe, in time, she will tire of this and leave me alone. What do you think?