I don't think love is a feeling, I think it's an action. I think if you've ever done anything for someone in need then that is something you've done out of love, whether you feel it or not. So I think if you've had a partner, I'ma go ahead and assume that there were times you helped that person with something, be it whatever. And I say that means you have loved them.

That kind of Disney love you wrote about, that's just not reality unfortunately, and it's not even love I don't think. Love is so much better than that. If anything I think I would call Disney type love a trick, it's infatuation in disguise and there is no lasting value in that.