That is definitely not a fun or healthy situation to be in, especially when you are trying to move on and respect both sides of the boundary. Focus on you, and frankly, I would keep doing what you are doing. Boundaries are essential, and with this situation, she may very well tire of her game if you keep your boundaries in place. Something to definitely think about for the long run. Also, Curly made a point about switching churches. Might be something to consider as well if things don't improve.

Good luck!