I received a copy of a digital magazine in my Inbox today. In it was a picture of my T, her husband, and children. Her and her husband were honored at her children's school back in November.

She uses her maiden name professional. The picture had her married name.

Would you congratulate her if you were me. I've been seeing her for 4 years. If I congratulate her she will know I know her married name and have seen a picture of her family.

Thanks for your input!