I laugh at myself when it comes to my startle response. I used to feel really embarassed (and well... still do sometimes) when people would comment on just how jumpy I am. So... I laugh. I laugh and it's usually nervous for a split second but then I calm down.
I'm also really hypervigilant about "changes" in someone's behaviour/tone/whatnot. I just try to remind myself that chances are, they're just tired or preoccupied or something and that it has nothing to do with me. (hahahaha. I say that. But I often fail at believing it!)
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"The time has come, the Walrus said, to talk of many things. Of shoes, of ships, of sealing wax, of cabbages, of kings! Of why the sea is boiling hot, of whether pigs have wings..."
"I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am.
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