I am not exactly the leading advocate in staying married, for the sake of kids. You are in a new state. After 6 months of residence, you can file where you are, perhaps even seek a lawyer of the day for advice and referrals. If that's what you need to do, and want to do. If there's red flags now, the likelihood of improved behavior, is slim to none, without him seeking help to change and grow.

What are your parents thoughts on your situation?