I guess I will find out if that is what he wants. I don't want that, but so be it, should it happen. I wrote him a letter trying to explain that family was everything to me, maybe when he reads it, a light will go on or something. We get along okay, there have been small issues, I suppose. He has never been the complacent type. He is a work a holic, always has been, thinking back. Am I crazy here??? I was a good Mom, it was all I ever really did, except for some part-time work. I just can't abandon my daughter to do this on her own (her husband is military). Nor do I want to!!!!