Ummmm...Im afraid I've already been away helping her for the last 6 months. I was able to go home tho, as we are only an hour away at this point. He is already upset with what I am doing. No I'm not looking for a way out, I am done with love relationships...I don't want or need another one at this point in my life. I really hope is he does just agree that I am going and doesn't want a divorce....my problem is telling him. He is going to yell at me and be angry. Childhood issues make this very scary!