Well, actually she does have a plan for me (and would welcome her Dad) when she gets done with school, we will live in a large home on the east coast. My son-in-law is quite agreeable to it all. He is happy to have his son raised by family. My daughter and I are very close and get along well.
We could close up our home here and it is very low maintenance and taxes, etc. My husband is really just being stubborn. He wants things his way.