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Originally Posted by sweepy62
Thanks , I will talk to my t about it, im not thinking to rationally these days, my reasoning for bringing my friend, for the feb session was because it would be my first alone session with this new person. I figured my friend would sort of be my protector, like a game of chess and I could say check mate or something, I dont even know if im making sense.
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I see no reason why you can't bring your friend with you but I think its best that they stay in the waiting room. Maybe even be introduced but then go back and wait. Then they are perhaps close enough so you feel safer, but you will be able to have a more confidential session. With your friend in the actual session with you I'm afraid you won't be able to get much done and drag out the process of establishing a rapport with the new T. You can be forthright with this new t and tell them why your friend is there, that you are scared and feeling badly about losing your current t. She should be able to help you through this. If it's unbearable, your friend is in the next room for you.