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Originally Posted by Angel of Bedlam
Are you referring to that dirty 30's thing that my boyfriend cautions me about? Idk if it'll be the same for me, I can't imagine my drive getting much larger. I think I'm gonna wait on the Paxil... but the only way I'll know is if I try... just scared to so it!
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Don't be scared, worst case scenario it doesn't work so well for you and you have to try a different AD. That's the way they are, you just have to find the one that works best for you. Again, my wife is on citralopran is has great results, but I had to go to venlafaxine. You'll just have to find what works. Think of it as learning to ride a bike, you'll fall a few times, but you'll eventually get the hang of it.
And yeah, the "Dirty 30's" hit my wife at about 35. It's not really a hormonal sexual peak like men get at 18 (and lasts for 24 hours before beginning to drop off
) it's more that a woman has matured enough that she knows what she wants and is more comfortable with herself. (Hehe, there comes a special time in a woman's life when ...
)
Your sex drive itself may not go up so much, but you'll likely become more ... adventurous. By the 30's women have done quite a bit and want to start spicing things up. My wife over a few years went from cuddly love-making to "GRAB THAT BELT AND HIT ME YOU DIRTY BOY!!"
(Seriously, I'm still trying to work it all out in my head ...) So yeah, tell your boyfriend to just bite down on something 'cause it's gonna be a wild ride.
