For the record, I've always been the one who has supported us financially. Even when he was working, he wasn't paying half of the bills. He would always make comments that I loved $$ when he gave me $650 for the rent. I thought that was abusive b/c he can't live anywhere for free & if I loved $, I wouldn't be with him b/c he isn't rich & doesn't even have a car.
In saying that, I'm wondering if he's only staying b/c he can use the benefits that come with my life. I'm confused!