Ah, that's quite a cocktail of happy pills!
Neurontin - For: mood stabilization and treatment-resistant depression
Hydroxyzine - For: anxiety
Trazodone - SARI antidepressant - For: major depression, anxiety
Lamictal - For: BPD, depression
Paxil - SSRI antidepresant - For: depression
Hmmmm... Yeah, it looks like the only drug there that can and really muck up your sex life is the Paxil... and it's the one that's newly prescribed.
My wife was on Paxil for a short time about 10 years ago when she was having some issues at work.
She and I would always have a good laugh in bed when she'd a l m o s t "get there" and it would just vanish "poof!" It was gone and there was nothing we could do to get her there again... What was REALLY funny was that I was on Zoloft at about the same time... So, yeah,
"I was ALMOST there... Yeah, me too!" God, we had some good, uproariously funny laughs over it.
Anyway, I would certainly talk with your pdoc about switching to a drug with no such side effects SOON!
Dan