I am a 52 year old male. In perfect health. Was on an SSRI for about a month, 6 months ago. Was on Wellbutrin, small dose until about 1 month ago. Now not taking anything at all.

My marriage of 22 years is over, divorced, now with girlfriend who I love very much. She, thank god, is very sexual. During my marriage sex was almost not at all, I masturbated 10X more than we had sex.

Now I am having huge issues with cumming. I can't seem to. I can have sex forever. Ultimately I have cum a few times from regular sex - but I am talking it takes a LONG time. When I masturbate I can come rather quickly. In about 5 minutes or so.. I put a cock ring on as that seems to do something for me.

My partner is very understanding and gives me unbelievable hand jobs and oral for quite a long time. It feels as if I am about to cum, she tells me it seems like I am going to. I am trying to relax and let it happen. But it doesn't. Ultimately she gets tired and I have to finish myself off.

This is so frustrating.. Am looking for guidance, help, advice, tips, etc... what should/can I do, try, etc.... I know much of this was probably from a screwed up marriage, and then all the stress I have been under, but even when I cum it feels different. It feels like I get close and then there is a cork stopping it... Finally when I cum it feels like the cork is pushed out and that the urethra is not as wide, but the cumming feels really good when I do cum.

Any help is appreciated!!!!