This transference thing is no fun. It seems to be a big problem for so many of us. I do know one way to calm it down a bit is to tell your T, which is exactly what you did. This is step one. Step two is figuring out why you have it (attachment issues) and really educate yourself (so many articles on the web about Transference) so you understand what is going on. Then, when you have those two steps down, you work on it with your T. Try to work on the root of the problem. Then the final step is TIME. Eventually, as I am told, it will slowly fade away.