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Originally Posted by hotchicken
Bueno, I think we ARE a lot alike! That is exactly why I do it- because I don't want to deal with SINGLE guys. If they don't call you again, then you feel bad about yourself and get mad at them and wonder who else they are with.
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I'm glad we can relate
I've always had a lot of trouble with relationships and getting a guy to call back for even a second date. It always makes me feel so horrible about myself, but I don't want to be alone forever so I keep trying.
Something that helped me switch from married guys is having a FWB. I tried doing online dating (the "normal" type) and met a guy who I went on a few dates with but it didn't work out. I actually didn't like him at all as someone I would date. But we stayed friends (with benefits) because he is great to talk to, I respect a lot of things about him, and he is always there for me. He is single, and I know him well so I don't have any guilt attached like I did with married guys.
I don't know if that would be right for you at all, (feel free to ignore me if it doesn't!) but I thought I would share what worked for me.
Sending you strength!
bueno
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