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Old Jan 10, 2014, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted by hotchicken View Post
Bueno, I think we ARE a lot alike! That is exactly why I do it- because I don't want to deal with SINGLE guys. If they don't call you again, then you feel bad about yourself and get mad at them and wonder who else they are with.
I'm glad we can relate

I've always had a lot of trouble with relationships and getting a guy to call back for even a second date. It always makes me feel so horrible about myself, but I don't want to be alone forever so I keep trying.

Something that helped me switch from married guys is having a FWB. I tried doing online dating (the "normal" type) and met a guy who I went on a few dates with but it didn't work out. I actually didn't like him at all as someone I would date. But we stayed friends (with benefits) because he is great to talk to, I respect a lot of things about him, and he is always there for me. He is single, and I know him well so I don't have any guilt attached like I did with married guys.

I don't know if that would be right for you at all, (feel free to ignore me if it doesn't!) but I thought I would share what worked for me.

Sending you strength!

bueno
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Thanks for this!
hotchicken