Thanks. He does know how much those statements bothered me. He doesn't see any problem in what he said. So, thus, (according to him), no problem. Our daughter's psychologist recommended that he and I come in together, but he won't do it. I've been compared to a single-parent by the her psychologist and many other people. And I really am. It took almost 10 months for my husband to take our baby out--and in the car even! But he came to where I work two miles from home because there was a special activity my daughter was attending. That was the first and probably last time for quite a while yet. I know sooner or later we'll get divorced. I'm actually surprised that we've lasted this long. He just doesn't see things my way. His way is always right. Thanks for your help.

Ann