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Originally Posted by indigo1015
That is entirely possible... generally they come to me, and I accept because I'm lonely and feel like a total loser anyway :-( You know, I feel like that's the best I can do, I guess
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So then the issue you need to address is not being doomed, but low self-esteem.
You need to get to place where you believe you deserve better than what you've been accepting. You need to learn how to love yourself, in order to be open to accepting real and lasting love. You need to learn that you are no loser!
Do you have a therapist with whom to work with? I'm not exactly a fan, but in certain situations they can be really helpful.