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Old Jan 11, 2014, 09:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Psychfan123 View Post
A lot of the pain comes from the fact that he told me that if he "learned anything from our relationship, its to not speak to other woman no matter what the circumstances are"-indicating that he is in an exclusive relationship with this other person that he values more than me.
Just indicates to me that he is a weak, immature male that is worried and does not know himself or feel he has control of his sexual desires (that talking to another woman would make him behave badly whether he "wanted" to or not).

I am sorry you are in pain and have to still see/work around this guy. I am glad you had this experience now rather than later when you were married or really depending on him to be a good guy.
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