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Originally Posted by lightinthesky
I feel your pain because I was also in 4 years relationship and was left by my bf, it's been 5 months and I am still recovering - it is very hard and I chose not to look for anyone. I also feel that I am not good enough for anybody, maybe this feeling we get is because we were left by a man we loved, man we wanted to be with, man who was good for us. I don't even know how to go back to dating and how you did it.. If you know how it feels when someone hurts you then please, don't do it to others, if you don't feel for Mr. A.H then tell him so he knows about it, if you don't feel it now then you won't feel it later.
I wish I could give you a better advice but this is all I can say, maybe you also need to stop for a while and be happy oh your own.
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I have thought about that a lot being on my own to be honest when I come up to it I think about how when I am alone I am not happy I stay home don't go out even with my friends I go out for a few hours then rush to get home. With mr. A.H i can talk to him about anything honestly when we started talking things at home were terrible and he was there even now through this time where I can figure out what I want or whats wrong with me or if I am the reason for why I cant find a good guy or accepting that my ex wasn't good for me he listens and cares its just when hes too nice it turns me away