The problem with dating sites is you see a photo first then what they want you to read. For depressed people this can be very superficial and triggering. Also, you get a lot of views during the trial because you are at the top of "new members". That's how they hook you. Not trying to dissuade but if you continue know that you have pay to be close to the top. Think of the competition for models. Beautiful people don't get picked. It's mostly beautiful lucky or connected people. That isn't to say it doesn't work. Just know that upfront.

Dating another depressed person has it's own set of challenges. You can bring each other down. Feed on each other.

I third (or fourth?) meetup. Getting involved in activities you like is the best way to avoid the anxiety you are felling about telling somebody. Another option is classes. There are always more women than men in those classes.

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