If he is a father who cares and wants a relationship with his children, that will happen no matter what. Do not take his responsibilities (being a good father) onto yourself; you are not responsible for his actions toward you or toward his children or anyone else, only your own. Staying teaches your children to value "mediocre" instead of trying their best for themselves and those they love? One cannot win all the time, no matter what one does.
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"Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius
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