We don't go back until Jan 31st.

Just to be clear, T is only going to testify about two things - his impact on me, and observations on his behavior during joint sessions. The supoena is to allow her to share what would otherwise be confidential about him.

The other interesting ethical thing is that ex brought our former rabbi, whom we both saw for a few counseling sessions. Not sure what he intends to say and am quite curious.

Healing - I see from other posts you have had quite an awful journey with DV issues, and your advice is invaluable. I especially agree with your comment that this is a classic abuser move, and it is disgraceful that he found an attorney to go along with it. (Not surprising, unfortunately, but disgraceful).