(((((((((( Leslie )))))))))))
Sadly, I have learned that we cannot fulfill all our parent's wishes, no matter how much we want to do it. Your Mom may have to bend, just as my mother had to bend.
It's sad. It breaks your heart. The guilt is so huge that you think you can't stand it, but you do survive. You have to survive because you have to help as much as you can, even if it's just visiting at the nursing home.
Does this make sense?
Hugs,
Jan
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